Karsten Wenzlaff, Advisor
August 26th, 2025
Aug 31, 2026

Money's been on my mind recently. Not in that anxiety-spiral way where you check your bank account at 2am, but this quiet realization that maybe I should know where my paycheck actually goes.
Last month I tracked every dollar I spent on fun stuff for 30 days. Movies, streaming subscriptions, nights out, concert tickets, all of it. The final number: $387.42. When I looked at that spreadsheet, I couldn't remember what half those charges were for. What's the point of spending money on entertainment if it vanishes from memory within two weeks?
I started approaching entertainment differently. Not cutting everything fun out, but actually thinking about what I was doing with my money instead of letting it evaporate.
I didn't create some elaborate system. After obsessing over my spending patterns, I noticed something. The weeks where I felt genuinely good about how I'd spent my time and money? Pretty much always came out between $50 and $65. Not $100, not $20, just that range where I'd actually done something worth remembering without that guilty feeling.
Usually broke down like this: one planned thing with friends costing $25 to $30, small daily stuff like grabbing coffee or buying a book adding up to $15 or $20, plus one spontaneous decision for another $10 to $15.
This magic number doesn't work for everyone. Your sweet spot might be $30 or $100 depending on where you live, what you earn, and what brings you joy. But having an actual number instead of vibes-based spending helps you make better choices in the moment.
I started investing 10 minutes researching before spending money on something. When I was considering trying a new platform (like when I checked out Rex Bet after my friend wouldn't shut up about it), I actually looked at what they offered instead of just creating an account and hoping for the best. New restaurant? I'd glance at menu prices first.
Doing that research didn't kill spontaneity like I thought it would. It made spontaneous decisions better because when I did something on impulse, I was way more likely to genuinely enjoy it instead of feeling like I'd wasted money.
Anything over $75 gets a two-day waiting period. That's it.
I wait 48 hours before buying it, and you'd be shocked how many times something I absolutely needed to have right that second completely disappeared from my brain after two days. Still thinking about that $89 blender I almost bought at 11pm on a Tuesday that I've never thought about since.
The stuff I still wanted after waiting? Those purchases turned out to be worth it almost every time. I noticed they were usually experiences instead of things, which bring way more lasting happiness anyway.
I'm not spending dramatically less money now. Some months I actually spend more than my old average. But the difference is I can tell you exactly where that money went and why. I remember the comedy show I saw three weeks ago because I actively chose it instead of defaulting to whatever required the least thought.
My whole relationship with my entertainment budget changed. Stopped being about restricting myself or feeling guilty, started being about actually being present for the experiences I was paying for instead of mindlessly swiping my card and wondering where my paycheck vanished to.
Pretty small shift when you think about it. Made a massive difference though.
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